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At some point, he will ask himself: Is this the woman I want to commit myself to?
The answer will determine whether the relationship deepens or ends.
If I were in your situation, I would do whatever I could to avoid the subject of this ex-girlfriend altogether.
I hope this article helped give you some clarity on how to handle things if he’s still in touch with his ex. There is one defining moment in every relationship that determines if it will last, or if you will be left heartbroken…
Playing detective or trying to control the other person to prevent them from being able to contact someone is just going to fill that person with resentment and will drain you of energy you could put towards better things… Seriously meditate on this thought: People are going to do whatever they want to do.
No amount of trying to control them, or to “guilt” them, or to reason with them, or to commit to them, etc. Of course your actions matter, but what I’m saying here is that in the end, you can’t control the other person and even if you were able to, it’s much better to know that the other person is going to be the way you want them to be without you having to expend energy on “controlling” them. I stopped trying to be perfect and control everything so I could feel OK.
At the heart of the issue, this sort of thing stems from your own fears.After you heard their opinion once, that was enough.