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04-Dec-2020 10:54

As time passed, Ben and I talked frequently over IM or over the phone and flirted with each other more and more.

It’s not exactly a secret that I have a fetish about being spanked and at some point — clearly crossing the line of what was appropriate for a guy with a girlfriend and his cute single friend to be discussing — Ben told me he loved spanking women. He loved all types of light, sexual domination play — tying women up, using his paddle, hair-pulling — and his girlfriend, Rachel, wasn’t into any of that.

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And when it came to outside-of-bed stuff, Ben described Rachel as resisting his natural inclination towards leadership.

She didn’t particularly like him being protective towards her and he said they bickered constantly. I should be clear, though: Ben wasn’t the first guy I’d come across who professed a liking for domination play. My first serious high school boyfriend is actually the one who flipped the pervert switch, making me realize that getting spanked turned me on.

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And much of our IM chats and emails were dirty talk about future spanking “punishments” to come: He would promise I’d be spanked 10 times for this or that infraction.

We not only shared the same kink but the same intensity for it? We flirted for months and months, occasionally talking about our mutual love of spanking and domination, but in the one very intense month after he said he wanted to break up with Rachel to be with me, domination and submission “play” consumed us. Then doing it over IM, email, phone and text message.

Ben wanted dominance and submission “play,” all the time? Much of the non-sexual domination “play” with Ben was just a shift of our regular friendship: We’d talk about the stuff we’d usually talk about, but he would take a more dominant role, sternly issuing instructions.

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